Danny I too am so so sorry to hear this sad news. It is a slap, a jolt it is heart wrenching when the "C" desides to show its ugly face again. God be with you and your family. These words I pray can help you. When I was told the second time, those words did not help me,,I am sorry to say that but they didn't. I was just knocked off me feet. Blown away. Turned inside and out. I wish there was something I could say to you that would make all the difference in the world, if there is I am at a loss to think of it. God Love you Dan, We will all pray. And pray again..Whatever it takes,, it seems to me that with this radical neck disection, the cancer is heading straight for everyones lungs,,What is the deal here, is this what we all have to look forward to. I mean we have already had this horrible surgery only to have this happen, I dont get it..Love to you Dan, Always Vicki