Danny,
There are many of us out here who are saying "Oh S**t" But it may be easier to just say my heart bleeds for you. The unknown is scary and until you can wrap your head around this and see the oncologist there isn't much anyone can do to help.
Except to say we are with you.
I have sent you a private email about an hour ago.
Please know it's not too hot in San Antonio right now. And I have a spare bedroom.
Dinah