I can't remember how many time John fired me :rolleyes: [as did his Doc a few times-who, at one point, told me to quit taking John's blood pressure 4 or 5 times a day,and to let him sleep as much as he wanted] Lily, I don't believe youall have disconnected, but what he is going through can only be sorted out by him on a gut level within himself, Your role is to give love and support and stay strong. Amy in the Ozarks