Hello Karen
I'm just getting back on my feet and had no idea of your situation. Thank You for your PM's. Especially with all you have going on, you made time for me. You have a Good Heart!
I think you need to print this post ( thread ) and mail it to "EVERYONE" involved and mentioned. "Put The Cards On The Table" so to speak. It gives a clear analysis of the total situation of exactly what's going on and exactly who is, and who is not invloved. It needs "no title" or explanation other than:
Please Read This About Dad. Thank You, Karen.
It may be the "wakeup" call they all need. You need some help and support and are carrying way more than your share of the load. And you are not bitching, just stating "THE FACTS". This possibly could bring everyone closer together. Or, cut and run for the hills.
I'm praying for you. Tell W I said hello. Sincerely, Petey