Hey Deb,

We've all been there and this is the place to get it out. Nothing prepares you for this experience and being able to talk to others who are going through the same thing helped me clarify my thinking on lots of things.

You'll have better days...and then worse days...and then better days, but eventually you'll find what works for you both and get back into life. It's a process with lots of ups and downs - I'm still having those bad days, but less and less.

Hang in there and please let us know how you're doing.

Regards JoAnne