 Senior Patient Advocate Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Deb,
Pardon me for being abrupt but you need to tell him to get off his *^% and get on with the rest of your lives. I know what my wife did for me/us when I was in need and I feel soory that she had to go through that. I am also 3 months out and I am working 10 hours a day and doing just about everything I was "responsible" for pre Dx. I could have tried to con my wife and taken the easy way but I wanted my life back and the only way to get it back was TO TAKE IT BACK.
Stop enabling him and tell him to get on with life. JMHO
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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