Thanks for the responses...we see the RO on Friday the 13th...HA! How's that for a good day?
I did not mean to imply that he should get no treatment...my understanding is that that would be awful and the tumor would choke him. However, I would like to get a good benefit vs burden discussion about treatment...is that something I should expect from the RO, the medical oncologist, or the ENT doc? Thanks again, I can see that this is going to be a valuable source of info and support..Wendy