Denver

I only have my fathers emperience to go by he was
told 6months to a year. Dr offered chemo and rad. to help him. He had bladder cancer and was told it would be very painful. So he took the chemo and rad. he was about two weeks into treatment when he got really sick. We contacted Hospice they were great. He lived only about 4wks. after being told 6months, but he actually told us he wouldn't change anything. My only regret is I made him go to the hospital, when the only thing he wanted was to stay at home, and let hospice care for him. But the end was very peaceful, it was not all the pain that the Dr. had told him about. Everyone is different, my dad was a very strong man. This is just a very hard thing to deal with, hang in there and let your sister know you are there for her what ever she needs. Take good care of yourself!!!


JOAN