Update...well Frank seems to be doing ok..doc is pleased with his progress. But, I had to ask him the prognosis, he said a couple of months to a couple of years.......I simply cannot fail this man. It`s funny, I was thinking of the Elephant Man`s disfigurement and the nobility he had in his soul.........Frank is disfigured, he drools, I wipe, people stare, but he just keeps on fighting..I have to help with his bath, none of this has ever affected me, as a nurse....but for Frank to lose so much and be in nearly constant pain for the past two years........I`ve been scared with all his surgeries,but right now I`m dealing with a terrible sadness, knowing this is how life will be without him. I would never ever trade places with anyone, I feel so honored to be on this path with him............I`ve just been having a bad time this time, but the good news hopefully, I`ll be going to Boston on Thur and Fri to see him. Just feeling down guys, needed to vent some.........Prayers to all of us.......Dee