Group Hug time here... It isn't a guy only thing it is a We have never been here thing...and Mandi he has a point some of us never did know...so it takes a while to get to a point where we can say it is over?

The thing we all should think about is What Is important?

PS I feel out of place because I am the husband...

Mark, 21 Year survivor, SCC right tonsil, 3 nodes positive, one with extra-capsular spread. I never asked what stage (would have scared me anyway) Right side tonsillectomy, radical neck dissection right side, maximum radiation to both sides, no chemo, no PEG, age 40 when diagnosed.