Hi Diane, I know just what you mean. My brother in law is very stubborn about taking any meds. He got the feeding tube with no problem but still doesn't like the pills for this and the pills for that. He says they just lead to others to correct one side effect or another. At first he had a very bad outlook on this whole thing. After speaking to two of my husbands family members who are cancer survivors, he changed. Hope is something anyone going through this needs. I came here for information and found the most wonderful people. You can't imagine how they have helped my whole family. As far as not being thrilled with good results, maybe it's just caution. Today is my brother in laws last rad treatment and he feels terrible. A ct scan yesterday showed that his tumor is almost gone but he didn't excactly jump for joy. (I DID) I guess we just don't know how they feel. Hang in and hold on. My prayers are with you. God bless you and watch over you both. Gwenny