Hi Katie, in my case it was a few weeks after the end of radio/chemo before I could swallow properly again - however, I should point out that I couldn't swallow for over three weeks after the original surgery, so you shouldn't assume it'll be the same for you husband.

Swallowing was something I seemed to have a particular problem with, whereas in other areas I got off lightly. Having said that, I now take all my food orally, and have a pretty good appetite.

I'd echo what Amy said about staying in the present - it's easy to get hung up about the things you can't do, so it's important to try and get whatever little pleasures you can wherever you can get them. One day at a time, just try to have the best day you can. You will get there!