SKP,
Have you checked your insurance plan??? Many plans cover the liquid supplements and equipment needed to "eat" with the tube. Our plan included a nutritionist's oversight to calculate how many calories Bill needed a day for optimal intake...then the company delivered the supplement (Nutren 2.0 with fiber)and supplies (gauze,tape,syringes, etc.) to the house...very helpful.
Everyone is right...getting thru this treatment is one day at a time, good pain control, and good nutrition/hydration..the latter being hugely important.
Good luck to you both...we are all here to help you thru this nightmare. Deb