Jen,
You're probalby still digesting all the new information being thrown at you. In time, you may feel more like communicating with family. My husband wouldn't let me tell anyone about his diagnosis for about a week or so. He needed time to process it all without people reacting to the very scary news.

I know this is a really hard time for you and your husband. I think the period immediately after diagnosis was almost worst than treatment time - just because of the huge anxiety factor.

Anita