Lorie,
I like to think that all oral cancer sufferers are family - one of those families you wish you didn't have to be a part of, but family all the same. I think my brother and fellow suffers will be there to hug your husband, make him feel safe and show him the ropes. It's what family does and we are family. Bless you both. We love you.
Tonya

Sister of 32 year-old oral cancer victim. Our battle is over but the war rages on. My brother passed July 26, 2005. He was a smokeless tobacco user.