Lorie, I am so sorry to hear about your developing situation. Please consider calling Hospice. They have medical and emotional resources that might be very, very helpful to you and Don right now.

There is a great little book called: "When bad things happen to good people". I cannot remember the author's name but it really helped me through a tough time a few years ago. Also, "On death and dying" by Elizabeth Kubler Ross (sp?). She is a widely recognized expert on the topic of terminal illness and her books are easy to read - even though the topic is very tough.

My thoughts are with you both. Tom