Gita, sorry for you even having to be here. The 1st thing I remember with my cancer was you have to stand firm and demand things. Second opinions, test and biopsys and anything you can think of you want done. Just 1 week after my surgery I started feeling a hard small knot in my neck. My doctor said inflammation didn't want to even look at it. I had to throw a fit, and if you ask my husband he can tell you I did. Long story short, 3 nodes positive. I am 3 years out this month, and I believe I am responsible for that. It's her body she knows it better than anyone, stand up and tell them what she wants done. Lots of Luck and L O V E!!!!!