Hello Fred; I rejoice in your victory and hope that you will continue to let us know how your wife manages in her recovery.
Alas for those of us who have been burned and cut and had our bodies and our lives reorganized in unbelievable ways your post is hard to read...that being said, I am glad to have read it and appreciate your candor.
Sometimes I feel like we OC patients are stuck in the "one passenger per vehicle lane" while other more notable cancers fly by us to success. All the more reason to keep on sharing methinks.
Knowledge can be a double edged sword; so we are cautious.
Cheers, Fran