Jim,
HAve you thought of writing to her?
That way you can express your appreciation of her, amend it as you go along etc. to be sure you're saying what you really need to say and how you feel about her>
I hope you get to see her again soon
Brenda


Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!