Thanks all. I'm 43, and have lived with this most of my life (through teens, etc., which - unfortunately, is when it became more noticable). I suppose that gives one a different outlook. I was too young to remember the fear, fight or relief.

No offense using the word 'disfigurement' - I guess I don't know of another word to use.

I'm a single female too - so I think that makes it a little harder in some ways (being looks conscious). People tend to ask me about it now and then as well, even in job interviews, so it's been enough to make me wonder.

It's funny because - like I said - I usually was pretty good about dealing with it. I know I've alot to be greatful for, and find you all very inspiring as well. Thanks for your input.

Cathy