Dee
Dont try to do the nursing yourself she is you Mom, let proffesionals do the nursing side of things, that what I have done and it has made some special time for us both, my Mom is unlikly to leave hospital this time, so i know how difficult this all is, so get the practical help in place then you can sit and talk to them both..
May your God walk with you on this journey.
Sunshine..love and hugs
Helen


SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04