Nicki -
It surprised me how little "outsiders" could understand what I was going through. Everyone here always says "welcome to the club no one wants to join", but it certainly is a club and thank God (or whomever) we're here for one another.
I was no exception to the shock and sadness felt from Lynn's passing. The frustration certainly continues to build with each new diagnoses. All I can offer you is my love and support. It is a hard road, and it certainly could be more enjoyable, but you will get to the end of this road. Just think - once you're there, there will be many side roads to take for the rest of your lives.
Wishing you and Tom well,
Sabrina