Hi Cindy,
come and vent all you like, you'll be in good company. My husband has prostate cancer, currently in remmission, and I'm on a monthly check to see what the changes to my tongue and throat are doing! So as you can imagine the ups and downs in our house! September was good my husband fell in to the bottom of the bottle, and I took an overdose of sleeping pills, glad that it's now december! I'm on anti-depressants now, and my husband takes anti-depressants and anti-anxiety drugs, so don't be afraid to ask for help, either for yourself or your husband, even a counsellor, as you say cancer changes everything and sometimes you can be to close to the problem to sort it. Take Care, keep us up to date with whats happening.
God Bless Helen