Mandy
My thoughts are with you and Hayley ..I can agree with the others here and tell you , you won't find a better place for support , information, advice and just compassion and understanding of what you both are going through .
PLease do keep us informed on her treatment plan and Jane is right ASK questions , cus others here have experienced it and they can give you some insight.
NO this isnt easy , but it can be done and there are alot of us here that can atest to that . Let her know we are all standing beside her and holding her in our thoughts, and you as well !!
Shar