thanks for all the information! I do appreciate it. This is a tough situation as I have little relationship with him but will be his only caretaker. I like to be informed and on top of things so this forum will be helpful for me.

Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free