thank you Paul
your encouraging words, support and helpful thoughts are so appreciated.
we had a CSW stop in at our last visit with the surgeon..
she actually had the worst patient approach and not only came across odd to me and my husband but truly did not impress me.
I work with CSWs all the time and they are nothing like this. We will seek resources for certain, but will likely look to find this with someone a bit more cancer patient etiquette. You did remind me to put this on my list of things to ask and do.

thank you