Keleigh your father is in a very dark place right now and my eyes well up thinking about it. My only experience with palliative care was on the other side of a hospital curtain, when the team came around to speak to my neighbour and his wife. They were amazing. When others don't know what to say, they do.
I hope your father and your family find the support you need. You'll be in my prayers.
Cheers, Dave (OzMojo) 19Feb2014 Diagnosed T2N2bM0 P16+ve SCC Tonsil.
31Mar2014 2 Cisplatin, 70gy over 7 weeks (completed 16May2014)
11August2014 PET/CT clear.
17July2019 5 years NED.