It can be crazy frustrating when the hospital doesn't work together interdepartmentally. My father in law had a similar situation though they are very good at his hospital. The chemo dep would give him a schedule, then rads would give him a schedule, then surgery would give him a schedule. He has one number at the hospital. They should have all accessed ONE schedule and put their stuff in so he would have ONE paper to look at instead of three - and most importantly they other departments could see if they were running over someone's time.

Anyway - push and advocate - that is the only way to get things done. I am surprised they stopped the rads. How do they know it's not responding ? has she had a CT? Usually they will follow through to the end to determine response. Can they go in and debulk the tumor? Then finish the radiation - or do internal radiation? (this is done while she is open - they go in - remove what they can then cook what is left)

give her a hug for me and sending you luck and blessings that she begins to respond.