I would tell him at some point, soon. Not to ruin his Christmas, but he should know - I would tell him one dr. Said he was clear, but you got another call and they want to check out a spot - that has been there a while and seems to have gotten smaller. It's probably not cancer but better safe than sorry so they want to remove it and that way it's gone - which is better than not knowing.
I would have chosen the earlier time as well. Hugs. Im not going to say sorry because I think it's possibly scar tissue or what not. And I'm sticking with that, hugs.

Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan