Thank you for your input. I guess I'll just try to be as gentle as possible and be there for them as much as I can. They already lost their parents (my mother and their father), and I know the older siblings (in their 20s) will be fine, but I'm really worried about these young ones. frown

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Age 27, mother of 4 year old girl
SCC(a)left side of tongue
Stage 3
DX 11/11/13
CAT scan 11/4/13 - biopsy 11/6/13
PET 11/18/13
Partial glossectomy/radial forearm flap/PEG tube/trach 12/12/13
Radiation/Chemotherapy 1/14
Currently NEC