Getting those extra fluids makes a world of difference. I was so happy our MO insisted on them. Kevin drank quite a bit of water, but he still couldn't keep up.
We, as caregivers, understand the terrified and crying. It is absolutely the worst feeling to be so helpless and have to watch our loved one go through this, but they make it! It does get rough but stay with us and we will help you through it.
Hang in there.
Kathy

Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14