I am crazy worried. As worried as when my "always healthy" husband got DX in March of SCC Stage 4 BOT.

He made it thru chemo tho had every side effect possible and very harshly....made it thru 31 of 35 scheduled RAD treatments but the last 3 (last week) did him in......was in ER/Hospital 3X - he has quit treatment and nothing I say or the doctors say will budge him.
He is dealing with such bad side effects I don't think he is making good decisions...but, it is HIS "call to make". Just panic....anybody been here?

LMC
My spouse of 35 years DX SCC Stage 4 BOT in March
Finished Chemo
Every side effect possible + harsh
Ditto with RAD
Hospital/ER with last RAD treatments- quit at 31 of 35