OH Rosy, THANKS SO MUCH. It is what I tell myself for comfort....the doctors themselves when asked, can't or didn't, give a good answer for WHY exactly 35 (and they ARE good doc's) don't get me wrong. It is not an exact science they say.

So, I too pray what he did was enough. But it is all he can handle.

How is your recovery?
I have to return to work and am scared to leave him but know he will get through. Do you have good support? You are so young. Bob is 67 but prior to this 67 going on 16!!!