Well, the local tumor boards have weighed in, and the surgeon and radiologist both sat us down to discuss my options.
They both say that it is about 80% / 20% whether it is gone or will come back, since I only had tongue surgery so far. I have three choices: just walk away and consider it done (none of the local docs favor this), have lymph node surgery as a preventive measure even though the scans were good, or do radiation to further zap the tongue and lymph nodes.
I don't really feel comfortable with any of those options. Walking away is scary, but causing further and potentially unnecessary damage to my body seems like a bad idea. Plus I would still have the
HPV virus, right?
Getting very frustrated right now. It shouldn't have to be this confusing!
Sorry if this is mixed up. Typing on my tablet is a nightmare.
Kristen