Hello Francesca, I also am amazed at how well your husband is bouncing back..he must be one strong willed man!
Now, I can just see you and Helen chugging down the sangria.. mmmmm Spain in November? sounds good to me.
As you will have seen during your sojourns through this board we have all had to deal with this in different ways.
One of my favourite quotes to remember is an Emmerson one .
" What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. "

You can do it girl hang in there !
Tkae care of yourself
Love
marica