Hi there,

A trick I learned when the angry surfaced is that I would say to myslef "I am so happy that he is here to bug me". If I concentrated on this phrase when someting was said to me half the time I won't come back with a reply. Dry those tears girl and whenever a "happy" moment occurs between the two of you learn to make it last as long as possible. Whatever the activity that you two shared as a couple and enjoyed the most, if you can, try to do it now.

Debbie M, husband had tonsil cancer