Hi, Amy.
You are a bright young woman to have searched for and found this site, and brighter still for recognizing the real value hidden here. I 'joined the club' a little over one month ago, and it has eased many fears and answered so many questions.
One thing you can tell your dad is that he might NOT lose any hair, depending on which drug they determine will be best for him. I was devastated, too, thinking my husband would lose his great hair, but nary a one has fallen out. He did, however, cut it very short just for the convenience factor, since he's spending lots of time sleeping these days!
Our youngest is a junior at James Madison Un in Harrisonburg, VA, and she's been an angel - calling home to check on him and giving up weekends to come home for a quick visit. You will be a true pillar for your dad..and I'm sure you can make him see the value in looking ahead.
Let him know that he can find real support here - and that we already extend love and prayers for his full recovery.
Nicki