Hello Tower
Welcome to the board. I agree with others, go to the very best and most up-to-date facility you can find. For the future it is important to retain as much of the salivary system as possible. Family help is beneficial during the six weeks or so of treatment.
I'm sure you will find this OCF family supportive and constructive during the weeks ahead. I send best wishes for your treatment, whatever your decision, and will follow your progress with interest.
From Helen, with love
