Its a very hard decision to make! But until all the test come in and your father knows what he is dealing with and potential treatment plans, its not possible to decide his fate yet.

I walked around with Stage IV OC in 2009. When my doc told me to get my affairs in order as it was very serious and Stage IV, I could tn believe it. I really felt great, lots of energy and had no symptoms at all. Many times OC presents no symptoms until late stages which is why it is such a deadly disease and sometimes so hard to treat.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile