Wow. I am so very sorry that all of this has happened. I hear your frustration about doctors/care homes not being held accountable for their actions, all the while that you have been completely held accountable - even for things that weren't of your doing!!!

I have heard the term that life isn't fair, but your experiences demonstrate that x 10.

I am sure you have spoken to lawyers about potential success of litigation, but if they advise that this isn't probable, I would suggest trying to get some counselling to learn how to let all this go. I know I would sure need some professional advice on how to deal with this.

Hugs

Donna

Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)