Karen this thread has become very informative. Im sure many other members will be able to read the info Antia and Eric have written.

Depression is a huge problem for many cancer patients and even for the caregivers too. Even though Alex feels a therapist wouldnt help him, Im certain it would. You are not professionally trained to be able to handle Alex's mental struggles. So by telling you everything he would discuss with a therapist isnt going to help him. It will make things harder on you as you will want to help but arent able to do what a therapist can. Im sorry Alex leans on you so much. Caregivers have such a hard job!!!! You have to wear so many hats and when all is said and done you still need to have some time for yourself to just catch your breath.

I was happy to read about Alex and the kitty. Pets can be such a blessing and they give back so much. I love my kitties. I even feed a couple stray feral cats and have rescued their babies. Its something that helps me to feel useful. Im glad that Alex has that special bond with your cat. It probably makes him feel like he is needed which is what everyone needs.

Best wishes with your quest to help Alex!!! To me you and all caregivers are ANGELS!!!!