What ever his decision, you know you have your entire cyber family here behind you to get through this. It can be tough love sometimes, but no one here wants you to have anything but the best information, and any emotional support either of you need. No one gets through this alone. Don't mistake "tone" of a post for lack of caring. I am one of the worst when it comes to that. No questions are off limits and no questions are dumb. When you feel frustrated and can't vent safely at home � bring it on.

Brian, stage 4 oral cancer survivor. OCF Founder and Director. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.