it's OK Ron thinks it would be better for him to just die so I can have a better life since I'm only going to be 55. he don't want to have the surgery to remove the cancer (still waiting on biopsy report today) from his jawbone and have a bone replaced there, said he don't want to go thru it. Also he has a spot on his lung 3 cm he has Thoracic apt on Tuesday. he is having pity party all by himself, i'm sure you saw yesterday my son's gf posted a video of our granddaughters on his lap singing with him, we told him he is being selfish and he says the grand kids won't remember him anyway...nice right? so ya, here I go. I told him bout everybody here and how they are still glad to be alive even with all the scars and wounds and reconstructive surgeries. I don't know what to do but one thing I did tell him, if he is giving up than he will not do it in my home. He told my son's gf he would move to his mom's house,avoid us all and die, ya right she's 78 yrs old...she won't be able to handle that and we told him we would never leave him alone and just forget about him. Men...!