Great post, Susan! I understand a person's style can really put-off a reader. It is such a shame when valuable information gets lost as a result of an antagonistic tone in a comment.

Sometimes people do not know that their comments are hurtful or offensive. A kind, compassionate, aware person will apologize and make amends when they realize they've hurt someone. I admit to have been party to it and I apologize.

Thank you, all, for your positive messages and support over the past few months. I am truly lucky to have found OCF.

Sandy