[quote=DonB]The Google Toolbar for IE (Internet Explorer) includes an spell checker tool listed under the 'Toolbar Options'.
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Don, this is what I use, and it works well if I remember to use it!
It sounds like what Brian and Christine are talking about is a Mac thing.
Thanks all for the information.

And, back to the original topic:
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A few months ago I had recommended a newly diagnosed person with oral cancer to come to the forum. After a few posts and some not so nice comments from some long-term members, she left the forum never to return. I know others have done the same thing.

In my opinion, this is not what the forum was designed to be � it should be a welcoming and supportive place for all... please be respectful of each other and the purpose of this forum.

Thank you!
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I think we have to be especially sensitive to "newbies" who are scared to death with the diagnosis of OC and the treatment options they read about (feelings which we all remember and understand). Those of us who have read these forums for a while, have experience with various posters' styles and personalities. We have a better understanding of what they have been through, and how they have struggled with their own individual situations. IMHO, new members need emotional support and information, and we could all do better in focusing on what the person is asking about. For example:

Brand New Member

This thread was started by Chuck, a professional trumpet player on 8/10/10. His tumor was FOM, T1N0M0, clear margins, and he was asking about radiation. Chuck made four posts in the first 24 hours and then disappeared. The thread wandered away from Chuck's concerns and developed into a "discussion" about statistics, HPV, and how competitive the music business is, continuing through 8/16; We NEVER heard from Chuck again!

He did get some good advice, but I think the overall experience could have been overwhelming. I feel we could have done a better job in questioning Chuck further and making him feel that he was the focus of the thread.

There are so many concerned, intelligent, informed folks participating here! I think we need to try and focus on the topic at hand, remembering our own stories and opinions are tangential and may not apply to the current poster's immediate concerns.

Just a Thought Friends! Thanks for starting this, Susan!

And... I remembered to spell check!