I think it is extremely important to be sensitive to the fact that this disease is very traumatic for all going through it no matter the age you are when diagnosed, which surgeries and treatments you did or did not have. It isn't a competition.

The truth is that this is a very difficult thing for anyone to go through period. Being depressed after treatments end is a very real experience for many of us.

It is hard to deal with the aftermath of this disease- its physical effects (which have effected us all in different ways, speech, talking on the phone, meeting new people, scars) are a constant reminder and then there is a very real psychological aspect as well.

Because one feels sad or depressed doesn't neccesarily mean they are feeling sorry for themselves or not dealing with thier situation the best they can.

Charles- I still get very down sometimes too. Life can be very challenging sometimes for me at times. I understand what you mean about having to celebrate an anniversary of a sad date. It is odd at first but you will come to embrace it as a time to reflect upon all you have accomplished since that time and it is a reminder of all the things to be thankful for in your life. I do think it is good advice to try and celebrate each day of this new life you have been given- no matter how hard it can be to do some days.

Congratulation from me on your year anniversary and may you have continued good health and recovery.

KATE