Charles ,

You and I see things so very differently. I was younger then you when I was diagnosed at 33. I was just months away from national recognition in my job that would've allowed me so many options in my life and benefits to my family when cancer stole that life from me.

My life now? Amazing. I view my experience as a blessing in so many ways its difficult to remember the life I had before. I'm a different man in more then just the way I look and sound...but the way I think and view life.

Every minute with my family is a gift, every minute chasing my dreams , creating memories, living...so sweet no matter how bitter the dish.

For me I stopped grieving my losses and started counting my blessings and realized I'm a pretty lucky man.

Eric


Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.