Brian

OOPs, look like I linked to the Glenn Beck of HPV - sorry.
Out of all the points you make, IMO the fact that you have continued the same love life pre and post cancer is the take away message. Not being cavalier, but unless OCF somehow attracts only robust immune caregivers, I'd expect to see more responses on this thread about - be careful, my spouse had OC and now I have it too.
Seems like an unvoiced fear on some of the threads, one which I think unfounded. Which admittedly is (as you note) pure (impure?)speculation on my part
Charm