Paula, i am so sorry for what u are going thru. caregiving is a tough, tough job...but listen to the others--u have to take care of yourself as well--or u wont be any help to Jim.
even if its a few minutes to get out and take a walk (at night--it is Texas and if your knee permits).
I know time is not your friend right now and there never seems to be enough of it, but it will do u a world of good to take a few moments for yourself.


Teresa
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CG to ANDY. Nasopharyngeal Carcinoma (NPC)
T2N2cMxG4 stage 4. 43 @ dx 8/31/09
tx 9/21/09-11/06/09 cispatin/docetaxel/5-FU X3
PORT 9/9/09, PEG 12/07/09
35 IMRT-1/wk carbo 11/30/09-2/3/10
tx stopped due to complications
IMRT BOOST 3/08-3/12/10
PET 4/12/10 CLEAR!
PEG out 4/14/10