I KNOW EXACTLY WHERE YOUR COMING FROM!!! We are wearing the same shoes. I am trying to cope too it's been a lot longer, with a lot more surgeries and children who grew up only knowing this kind of life. But we are all the SAME!! It's very frustrating and heartbreaking. I am at the very exact page you are on. I know you don't know me but I do know my husband frustration and how that frustration is directed at you, the caregiver, It's a hard pill to swallow for all!!
Liz


CG
01 SCC LBOT 42YO-part gloss 5 mo rad
03 recur RSCC gloss & R Jaw removed
05 recur LSCC
07 recur RSCC recon R jaw fm left fib
09 recur LSCC gloss & LL jaw. recon fm rt fib
7/10 inoperable.TrachPEG-carbo/taxol
11/11/10 ca back begin erbitux
12/11/10 passed away in sleep - at peace at last!! XOXO